KENNETH OKONKWO QUOTE!

Before I quote him from a recent interview, let me introduce him a little. Kenneth Okonkwo is one of the pioneers of the Nigerian movie industry. He was the star actor in Nigeria's first home video 'Living in Bondage' One of the best movies ever made in Nigeria, how many of you know it? Kenneth is one of the most respected and highest paid actors in Nigeria...he's also a producer/director.

Kenneth got married in April 2000 to the daughter of the General overseer of the Christian Pentecostal Mission, Ogechi Mercy Ezekiel. By May 2002, the marriage which produced a child, ended. In 2005, he got involved with another woman and the relationship produced a daughter.

He recently granted an interview...hear him...

On his violent temper ending his marriage
"I hate aggressive women. And anyone who wants to torment me, man or woman, I defend myself with aggression and with all ferocity with which the attack is coming. Self defence is the most fundamental element of human rights. So my marriage cannot crash because of my anger. Anger as an emotion would always come up when somebody is unjustly treated. I always prefer to avoid aggressive women so that I wouldn't have to unleash my anger on them. When a lady, by omission or commission, makes herself to be an aggressor, I would not make myself the punching bag, make no mistake about that"
There was this rumour that he was a wife-beater, with this statement, I believe them...this guy needs to get his face slapped.

On why his wife left him
"Sorry for the correction, She didn't leave. The truth is that every of my relationship that crashed, I've always said I'm fed up" Is this guy for real?

On another woman having his baby while his divorce was yet to be finalised
"My first marriage crashed and I needed to date some other people so that after my divorce I should be able to make a choice. I dated some people and discovered they were not what I wanted, so I didn't end up marrying anybody. If she (Nancy Ekedo) has a baby for me, to God be the glory"
There are talks that the second woman has also left the relationship...reading this piece, do you think he's a woman-beater?

LAI LAI!!!

I've been asking relationship questions and people think it's about me? Lai lai. I have a way of doing things to drive people crazy, keep people on their toes. I'm so smart its stupid lol. For those who care to know...I'm still very much with Mr F...

The relationship questions I ask is to create a mini-forum where people can exchange ideas, learn from each other etc etc...

But seriously, I have a married model friend who is madly inlove with a guy who loves her deeply, but the problem is she's married. Married to an Igbo illiterate man at 19 because her parents needed a rich in-law, she's 24years now, has two kids and is unhappy in her marriage. She met this guy who wants to marry her, she loves him and had planned to leave her husband and marry this new guy, they had been together for 2 years and had already done introduction and then all of a sudden she decided to go back to her husband and miserable marriage...because of family pressure and her children. She's been crying non-stop since then. What I want to know is how do walk away from someone you love deeply? How do you forgive yourself for not going after your happiness, for not thinking of yourself first? She's gone back and is determined to stay there and this other guy can't believe that she could just walk away from what they had...it's sad right?

Naija entertainment gists and gossips coming your way...stay tuned!

HAPPY WORKERS DAY!

In Nigeria, all workers are staying home today...May 1st is a work-free day in celebration of workers...Don't know if it's same in other parts of the world.

Happy workers day everyone in Naija.

JENNIFER LOPEZ OR BEYONCE?

Who is sexier? Jennifer Lopez or Beyonce?

Alot of Naija gists and gossip coming your way...i.e Kevin Luciano in street fight...no be me tell una o! Nollywood actor Kenneth Okonkwo speaks on his failed marriage and kids from another woman, Bayelsa govt sponsoring MBGN Universe to Miss Universe, Ini Edo after the ban, actresses misbehaving, Azeezat's new album and so on and so on...back with y'all later.

OLUCHI DELIVERS BABY BOY

Our own grass to grace story, supermodel Oluchi has given birth to a baby boy. The 27 year-old was delivered of a baby boy in a US Hospital on Wednesday April 25th 2007. The boy was named Ugochukwu...the couple are said to have settled for the name because it's both Ibo and Italian. Ugochukwu is an Italian name? That's news! Oluchi was quoted to have said that her pregnancy wasn't planned, hear her..." Initially I was not so pleased about it. It came as a real shock, but I knew I had to get used to the idea"

Oluchi and her Italian designer hubby tied the knot in 2005. I hear the guy has a $4, 000, 000 house...and he seems like a pretty decent guy...What a lucky girl!

I PUT UNA FOR WORK!!!

Wienna and co, olodo people. That was English written in trebuchet fonts. U no even try decode am...olodo...English speaker!lol. I put una for work abi?

I almost didn't blog today...not just because I had a busy day...I also had some real personal issues to deal with...Life oh life...moving on...

What I wrote was...'How do you walk away from someone you love? How do you forgive yourself and move on?'. Only Tonipayne and Anonymous got it...Brilliant people.

I made a life-changing decision today...maybe one day I'll tell you all about it...It was a decision I should have taken a long time ago, I just couldn't find the strenght to do it until today...I've never been happier...

Meanwhile Oluchi has given birth to a baby boy...her bundle of joy is called Ugochukwu, mother and son are said to be doing great. Can't wait to start having my own kids...I could carry a baby a whole day and not get tired or bored. I practically raised my neighbours children until they were 2/3 years old. I love kids like crazy...Can't wait to find that special someone and start bringing kids into this world...that would be the life!

RELATIONSHIP QUESTION!

how do you walk away from someone you love? hOW DO YOU FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MOVE ON?

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