What is success, really?

This is a comment from a LIB commenter, Sleek. He/she made it on the Janet Jackson new body post. Please read and tell us what you think

Stop encouraging these failures, no husband, no child, why her waist no go tiny? If u want to be like her u are free, just don't marry and don't have kids. I don't fancy this kind of person. Life is - you have to be given birth to, then live, then marry, have kids and live as a family of ur own apart from ur previous family ( parents and siblings ). To me that's fulfillment and success. Anything less of that is a total failure no matter what anyone says. I know some waste ones here will say immediate family is not by force or some will say marriage is not by force, hey stop deceiving urselves bcos a Person who is average in life with family (spouse and kids) is far better and more successful than a person who is a billionaire without family ( spouse n kids ).  Yes I said it, if u like start consoling urself by saying it's not by force. If u like try make urself feel good by saying it's a choice. Ranging from oprah Winfrey to Janet Jackson and to anyone out there who is super rich but no spouse and kids.